Answers: Coping with angry customers
Question: I manage a public sector contact centre where our people have to cope with complex calls - frequently covering a number of queries from the one customer. Our operators are trained to deal with difficult and often emotional conversations. But we’ve recently realised that we now need to start coaching our people in how to deal with angry customers too. We’re finding that customers are becoming a lot less patient on the phone, and sometimes our people are subjected to a barrage of verbal abuse that they simply don’t deserve.
It’s beginning to affect morale in the contact centre, so I’d appreciate any advice you can give me on tackling angry customers. Also, do you have any tips on dealing with the aftermath - when our operators are upset and often emotional themselves? We don’t want to start losing staff because of the way they’re being treated by our customers.
Answer 1
Courtesy of Michelle Greaves, contact centre and training manager at Garlands Call Centres (www.cjgarland.co.uk)
With competition in key industry sectors getting tougher, companies have no choice but to learn how to deal effectively with angry and demanding customers. It’s the reality today, not just in the private sector, but in many areas of the public sector too.
The text book method of ‘effectively handling angry customers’ is to train advisors to overcome customer objections, build rapport and take ownership of the problem resolution. But anyone that has worked in a contact centre knows that it isn’t that easy. If advisors are subjected to constant abuse over issues that are not of their making, and they are not equipped with the tools to deliver effective problem resolutions, then that abuse will start to wear them down. It’s an outcome that’s in no one’s interest: the customer, the advisor or the organisation.
Garlands’ response is both to equip its people with the right tools and, on a psychological level, to ensure that if advisors are subject to a tirade of abuse, they don’t take that criticism personally and that it doesn’t affect their morale and ability to deliver great service in the future.
It’s a process that starts with induction training. All Garlands recruits are taken through a comprehensive five to seven week induction training programme that comprises sessions in both classroom environments and the Garlands Academy. This is conducted with an experienced ‘coach’ dedicated to each team of six new recruits.
Dealing with difficult questions and angry customers is an important part of this training and impacts all modules: generic customer service training as well as call handling skills and specific departmental skills training. Garlands’ approach is not to match but to exceed customer expectations, for example, to build rapport with an irate customer by proactively using techniques to take the heat out of the situation.
For instance, an advisor may say: “I can hear you’re very upset. Can you tell me exactly what happened that made you very upset?” It’s an approach that’s designed to help advisors see issues better from the customers’ perspective and thus help manage their expectations.
Advisors are taught to take ownership of the problem resolution. But they are also taught not to panic, not to over-promise and not to admit fault to appease the customer until they are in receipt of the full facts. I have often found that saying, for example, “If that is what was said to you, I’m very sorry and can assure you that is not the policy of my company,” is a response that can be both helpful to the customer and enable the advisor to research the issue in more depth.
If the customer is very irate, then to take full ownership of the problem by saying, “I am going to put the phone down, check with another department and I’m going to call you back in 48 hours,” could also be appropriate in exceptional circumstances.
Once new recruits have received their initial training, it’s important that they have the opportunity to try out their new skills and techniques in a simulated environment before going live. In the Garlands Academy, new recruits are monitored closely with team managers coaching them in out-of-the-ordinary situations and in advanced questioning techniques. Once they hit the contact centre floor, skill and knowledge training is ongoing. All Garlands’ advisors receive additional dedicated skills and behaviour-based training plus specific product training as necessary. Ongoing coaching is also delivered by team managers who in turn receive management and succession training from contact centre managers and the Garlands’ people development team.
Maintaining morale and creating a team-working ethic where our people support each other is vital. If an advisor is clearly upset following a call, they can immediately have a one-to-one session with their team manager or contact centre manager. This session will be used to find out exactly what upset them, and an appropriate response will be made. If the advisor has struggled to overcome a customer’s objections, for example, then it may be suggested that they buddy-up with an experienced advisor for ‘peer’ coaching. While reviewing calls, the more experienced advisor may suggest “what I would have done is”". It’s a technique that we’ve used to good effect on many occasions.
To succeed, contact centre managers need to know that their people are capable of delivering excellent customer experiences time after time. It’s something that can only be achieved when those people are skilled, confident and motivated, supported with appropriate processes and technology, and work in a positive environment. If the contact centre is viewed by management as a dead-end job, then that attitude is often mirrored by low morale and dissatisfied customers. If customer service is viewed by management as a career-grade role with genuine career growth prospects, then it’s astonishing how attitudes, performance and customer satisfaction can be transformed.
Answer 2 Courtesy of Karl Howleger, chief executive at outsourcer Pell & Bales (www.pellandbales.co.uk)Understanding both sides of the story is important in this situation. In this case, two negatives do not make a positive.Handling difficult calls can be soul-destroying. Nobody can take ‘knock backs’ and ‘put-me-downs’ all day without some form of negativity creeping in. In a negative mindset it is very easy for an employee to expose their unprotected, soft underbelly, leaving themselves more emotionally susceptible and vulnerable to angry callers.For this reason it is important to support and encourage call centre staff at all times. Have employee champions that understand the culture of the call centre and who can spot signs of frustration and negativity. Have the champions provide encouragement and support where necessary.It is also important to understand the caller’s situation. At one time or another all of us have received unwanted calls, have been stuck listening to tinny classical music, or have not been unable to understand the person at the other end of the phone due to accent or poor line quality. It can be very frustrating.
Diffusing the situation lies in the tone of voice, empathy and the human touch. Call centre workers need to be able to listen, allowing the person on the phone to convey what is troubling them. A calm response is always needed. If your staff are unsure of the problem, get them to ask comprehensive questions. Through interaction, the caller will enter a rational conversation.
So, when coaching your staff in what to say, get them to recap what they have been told by the customer - for instance, by asking: “Ok, as I understand this”" - and ensure they ask for their confirmation. Once the problem is clear, they might suggest: “Ok, this is how I propose we tackle it”". They should always seek agreement.
Finally, they should terminate the call by reviewing what they and the customer have both agreed to do, and by offering the reassurance of further assistance if required.
If an employee is affected by an incident, allow them a break to regain composure. If possible, accompany them and encourage them to talk over the situation. It is important to state your support for your employee and the manner in which they handled the situation.
If they were in the wrong, highlight it as a ‘misunderstanding’, but ask how they might handle the situation if faced with it again. It is important to be constructive; talk through different methods of handling such problems. If they were in the right, reinforce this and offer your complete support.
Answer 3 Courtesy of Jo Thomson, managing director at training and change management consultancy Procter (www.procter.co.uk)
Your situation sounds like it has the potential to downward spiral rapidly. With that in mind it’s frustrating to read that you seem so accepting of the way things are right now. Come on. Be ballsy and fight for getting things right in the first place. You mention verbal abuse that operators don’t deserve. Who does deserve it? Are basic customer expectations not being met? Is it a process that’s badly designed? Is key information lacking? Remember doing something about the root causes of customer anger is the responsibility of your whole organisation, not just the guys on the front line.We’re not suggesting passing the buck. However, you need to address the root cause of change by getting every senior manager within your organisation to the ‘front line’ so they can a) experience it first hand; b) show their people they care; and c) gather essential management information around processes, customer ownership, end-to-end service delivery, and service and system challenges.Armed with information you can run a 90-day project to get it sorted. This is going to take more than ‘angry skills’ training. Firstly, design ‘team talk’ sessions to reassure the teams you are doing something about their problems. Secondly, involve your front line teams in fixing the broken bits. And finally, show them what the business has done about it. It’s important that operators and team leader staff work directly with senior managers to design and deliver solutions.Moving on to skills coaching. Do you already have a consistent positive coaching culture? We would only recommend more coaching if you are confident that you have. In order to be successful, coaching should be positioned as proactive support for overall growth and success. Coaching is not an alternative to tea and sympathy. Nor should it be used as reactive fire fighting. This is because giving people new skills only works if they feel positive about using them, and it sounds like you still have some work to do on that score.
In terms of something you can implement straight away, start by shifting the focus to the positive. How many customers get their queries dealt with successfully? Are you letting people know they’ve done well on those interactions?
As the person in charge it sounds like you’ll have to stand up and be counted to lead improvements from the front. The good news is you’ll be surprised by how much engaging your colleagues with some positive thinking can achieve. We wish you every success.












I work in a call centre and customers are just horrible.
Call centres are the lowest paid in the company, if you don’t want to count the cleaners. After working their a while I have realized the customer thinks you personally are the company and thinks their problems are your problems, when in fact, you really couldn’t care less.
Call centre staff are the dogs are the buttom of the company and are barely involved with it and to be honest don’t care at all if a customer will never use the company again and doesn’t care if the customer is annoyed for this reason or that reason.
We are just people trying to make money to get by.
We will do our job but we don’t get paid nearly enough to actually give two hoots about the customer or customer service.
If you bought something and it wasn’t exactly with you wanted and you’re angry about it, you don’t need to vent your unhappiness to them.
I think on my last day of work I will probably tell any rude, ignorant customers I get to [go away].
Comment by Katalina — 21 Apr 2008 @ 3:58 am
This is in response to Katalina, I am a CSR in an amazing call centre, with the most incredible csr support. Not knowing your situation I am only going on your original post, however my first thought while reading your post was that it sounds as though call centre work simply isn’t your cup of tea. I adore my work and it’s clear the customers appreciate my energy and creativity that I bring to my job each and every day. I see each call as a new opportunity to grow and develope my own skils, each day I start off by saying today my words, my voice, my choices will directly effect each and every person I come in contact with so I strive to make each communication count! I think that’s the difference between someone that loves thier job, and someone that simply isn’t doing something they are happy with. I firmly believe life is way too short to be stuck in a position you aren’t happy in. In your situation it sounds like there was no winners, the customer was forced to deal with someone that didn’t want to help them, the company you work for was being represented by someone that perhaps wasn’t representing them in a very positive light, and of course you weren’t doing yourself any good and as a result, perhaps turned a little bitter. I truely wish you the best of luck in your journeys and hope you find something you will feel passionatly about!
Comment by Colleen Christensen — 17 Oct 2008 @ 6:16 pm
Hi
From working in call centres and coaching staff I have found that getting the coachee to listen to the way they handled a call can be helpful especially if it is soon after the call.
Ask the coachee -
1. Action: what action they took, why, how
2. Impact: what impact they had on the customer, the call, the company, what effect did the way they handled taht call have on the business/service levels, how did they feel on the call, how did they think the customer felt before and during and after the call.
3. Do again: what went well on that call
Do differently: what would they change about that call and the effects it would have if they did make those changes.
If you do not have a call to listen to you can use the above method with evidence collated.
Also having a group discussion about how they feel when they receive poor service when they make that call to resolve thoer problem. What perception did they have before the call and after.
How do they feel about good service received.
What changes are they going to make.
Getting the customer on side always helps. If the customer is determined to escalate the call and will not disclose any info to the service representative, try telling the customer “I have read the notes on your account and so far I understand ….in order to direct you to the right manager I will need to take some information about your issue.” Always empathise with the customer.
Listen, take ownership, apologise, make notes, escalate if neccessary (nothing worse than someone refusing to escalate out of pride - effects the company and the customer), build rapport, keep promises, dont take it personally, go at customers pace.
Ask your coachees what they want to learn too. Is it a knowledge gap or behavioural problem.
Create an advice board in your call centre or on each community. Updated by representatives, team leaders, coaches etc on how to handle difficult customers, top 10 most asked questions by callers this quarter etc.
good luck.
Comment by Kay — 18 Nov 2008 @ 8:35 am
I am a Quality Analyst in a call center for the last 14 years. We have a great amount of support for our CSRs but the best support and most effective in our experience is the one-on-one coaching with the CSRs. We schedule 1 hour sessions with CSRs who have difficulty meeting the service levels expected or new CSRs.
Every session is focused on their individual needs. First we review the errors they made on the previous month audits and make sure they know the correct ways to handle those things, and then we allow them time to get their questions answered. If there is time left in the session, we will review some of the call tapes together and allow them to evaluate themselves on what they did well and what could have been better.
These mentoring sessions have been well-received by the CSRs and we have seen a great deal of improvement in the quality of their service levels. It also helps to have the entire management team supporting and encouraging top customer service.
Thanks for sharing your ideas and comments on this site, I plan to use some of the information for further development of the team.
Comment by Christi — 30 Jan 2009 @ 3:59 pm